With Others
Words for social situations and being with people.
109 words
Fika
fee-kav. Taking a break to enjoy coffee, pastries, and conversation with others.
Mamihlapinatapai
mah-mee-hlah-pee-nah-tah-pien. Silent understanding between two people, both unwilling to act.
Watashiato
wah-tah-shee-ah-tohn. Curiosity about the impact you've had on the lives of the people you know.
adj. Feeling lonely in a crowd; unable to communicate with anonymous faces.
Mottleheaded
mot-l-hed-idadj. Feeling uneasy when socializing with incompatible groups of people.
Heartmoor
hahrt-moorn. The primal longing for a home village to return to, a place that no longer exists, if it ever did.
Mithenness
mith-uhn-nisn. The unsettling awareness of the world moving on in your absence.
Liberosis
lib-er-oh-sisn. The desire to care less about things and hold life loosely and playfully.
Etherness
eth-er-nisn. The wistful feeling of looking around a gathering of loved ones, knowing that it won't always be this way.
n. The shock of meeting someone and realizing your mental image of them is outdated.
Alazia
"uh-ley-zhuh" or "ah-ley-zee-uh"n. The fear that you're no longer able to change.
Boorance
boor-uhnsn. An unassuming feature of our daily lives that will eventually seem bizarre in the future.
Anoscetia
an-oh-see-sha or an-oh-say-tyahn. The anxiety of not knowing "the real you".
Holiette
hoh-lee-etn. A place that seems significant to others but not to you, leaving you trying to feel something.
n. The set of living people who have known you all your life, all the way back to your infancy.
Hickering
hik-er-ingn. The habit of falling hard for a new acquaintance and imagining an elaborate future together.
Los Vidados
lohs vee-dah-dohsn. The half-remembered acquaintances you knew years ago.
Nachlophobia
nok-luh-foh-bee-uhn. The fear that your deepest connections with people are ultimately pretty shallow.
Exulansis
ek-suh-lan-sisn. The tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because others cannot relate to it.
Latigo
lat-i-gohn. A dizzying sense of awe at the sheer scale of modern society.
Anderance
an-der-uhnsn. The awareness that your partner perceives the relationship from a different angle.
Gnossienne
nos-yenn. The awareness that someone you've known for years still has a private and mysterious inner life.
Zverism
zvair-iz-uhmn. The wish for people to prioritize physical interactions over social norms.
Lutalica
loo-tal-i-kuhn. The sense that you're more than the categories that society puts you in.
Solysium
soh-lee-zee-uhmn. The unhinged delirium of being alone for an extended period of time.
Tillid
til-idadj. Humbled by readily entrusting your life to strangers without a second thought.
O’Erpine
awr-pahynn. To wander through a cemetery imagining the lives of the deceased.
Nodus Tollens
noh-dus tah-luhnsn. The sense that your life doesn't fit into a story.
Lumus
loo-muhsn. The poignant humanness beneath the spectacle of society.
Justing
justingn. The habit of believing that a single change could solve all problems, leaving you perpetually on the verge of a better life.
The Kinder Surprise
thuh kin-der ser-prahyzn. The point in early adolescence when you realize that adults are no less lost and insecure than you.
Ozurie
"oz-you-ree" or "ozh-uh-ree"n. Feeling torn between the life you want and the life you have.
n. The atmosphere of camaraderie when people are stuck together in a certain place.
Tirosy
teer-uh-seen. A complicated feeling of envy and admiration for younger individuals.
Anthrodynia
an-thruh-din-ee-uhn. A state of exhaustion with human cruelty, leading to appreciation for kindness and joy.
n. The disorienting feeling of meeting an old friend and realizing you've both changed.
Mal De Coucou
mal duh koo-koon. A condition of having an active social life but very few close friends.
adj. Longing to disappear completely and become invisible in a crowd.
Mauerbauertraurigkeit
mou-er-bou-er-trou-rikh-kahytn. The inexplicable urge to push people away, even close friends.
n. Curiosity about the real people behind internet usernames and a technique in digital graphics to smooth the appearance of jagged pixels in low-resolution images.
Koinophobia
key-noh-foh-bee-uhn. The fear that you've lived an ordinary life.
Fygophobia
fahy-goh-foh-bee-uhn. The fear that your connections with people will diminish as you age.
n. The sheepish casual vibe between two people who've shared an emotional farewell but then unexpectedly have a little extra time together.
adj. Struck by the poignant strangeness of other people's homes.
Amicy
am-uh-seen. The mystery of what goes on behind the scenes of your social life.
adj. Suddenly aware of the limitations of your social circles.
Emorries
em-uh-reezn. Vivid memories of a certain experience that may be disputed by others, leading to a reevaluation of one's worldview.
n. A relationship or friendship that lingers in your thoughts, despite seeming to have ended.
Kenaway
ken-uh-weyn. The longing to see how other people live their lives when they're not in public.
Mornden
mawrn-duhnn. The self-contained pajama universe shared by two people on a long weekend morning.
n. The phenomenon of observing your parents interact with people they grew up with, which reboots their personalities into youth mode.
Waldosia
"wawl-doh-zhuh" or "wawl-doh-see-uh"n. A condition of scanning faces in a crowd for a specific person who would have no reason to be there.
n. The tendency for social networks to magnify unexpected personality traits of people you know.
n. The pang of loneliness felt after an intensely social event.
Ellipsism
ih-lip-siz-uhmn. The sadness of never knowing how history will unfold.
Vemodalen
vey-moh-dah-lenn. The fear that originality is no longer possible.
Allope
al-uh-peen. A mysterious aura of loneliness felt in certain places.
n. An innocuous touch by someone just doing their job that you find more meaningful than you'd like to admit.
n. The fantasy of an elaborate diagnosis that neatly captures the kind of person you are.
Kerisl
kair-ahyln. The sorrow of imagining the wealth of knowledge forever lost to history.
n. The awareness that seemingly unremarkable experiences may have a profound impact on others.
Catoptric Tristesse
kuh-top-trik tris-tesn. The sadness of never truly knowing what others think of you.
Dolonia
duh-loh-nee-uhn. A state of unease caused by excessive admiration, leading to doubts about one's true self.
Insoucism
in-soo-siz-uhmn. The inability to determine the appropriate level of sympathy for one's situation.
Aulasy
awi-uh-seen. The sadness of being unable to convey a powerful memory to those who were not present.
Lilo
lahy-lohn. A friendship that can lie dormant for years only to pick right back up instantly.
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